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Trying too hard...?

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Sometimes, a question keeps popping up in our minds "AM I TRYING TOO HARD?". 
These types of questions can come out of nowhere, about anything or when anything doesn't go according to your plan. And it's okay.

Sometimes a person's disapproval can make us question ourselves, sometimes someone's rejection can do that to us, sometimes you are making an effort, you are trying to do your best but things don't go right and there you are questioning yourself "Am I trying too hard?".

It's normal.
It's okay.
It's totally fine.
You are alright, you are not trying too hard but you are pressuring yourself.
Why are we so worried about the outcomes of our decisions? We can't change the final consequence, the only thing we can do is make an effort at least you are trying. If things don't go according to you, maybe they are not worth it. So why beat ourselves, question ourselves.

Trust yourself, trust your instincts, it's okay to have doubts but don't be too hard on yourself. Everything will turn out just okay one day.
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