That one person...

Everyone has that one person in their life who either makes your life or destroys it. I had both of them and I know you also have them at one point in life. 

THE DESTROYER

Sometimes we give someone so much control over us that they sabotage our life. But why give someone that power to do so? No one has the right to make your life a disaster. So difficult that you start doubting yourself, you start overthinking, anxiety, stress. Their fake promises make your life so hard. You believe them, you let your guard down and what for so they can stab you in the back? Leave you all alone again? Break your trust? You don't deserve this. No one does. Heartbreaks can come from anyone your love, your friend, anyone (mine were both◕‿◕)

You are so much more than this. Believe me, you are much worthy.

THE SUPPORTER

And there is one person, who doesn't leave your side when you are going through the worst. They try to make things better for you. They try to be there for you when you say you don't need someone. They try to make you laugh when you don't want to even smile. But you are so deep in your problems you ignore them, you blame them, you get angry. Even then they don't leave your side. So maybe you don't need that person who destroyed you, you need that one person who is trying to support you. These people are worthy of your love. You can found them in your best friend, your family, anyone (mine was my best friend).

THE MAKER

Ugh. Maker is a cliche I know, but they deserve this much love. When you feel you have lost everything, you try to give up. A ray of hope shines on you. That one person comes knocking on your door. This is what you were waiting for. After all your heartbreaks, you are happy again. You start living your life fully again. Isn't this what you wanted? The person who understands you doesn't make you doubt yourself, makes you get over your past. This kind of people deserves all of our love, trust, even our vulnerability (oo.. haven't found one yet).

Ohh THE RISK.

Risk is everywhere, in love, in friendship. But what if they are worth the risk? You can never know. But taking the risk is worth it. Heartbreaks teach you lessons of life and love keeps you going. We can accept both, we are that much strong.

So risks are good for you. So does the destroyer, supporter and maker. Every person in your life has a significant role to play in your life. Don't forget that.