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The idea of being in love

  In love, Nowadays, love has become so common. You see little kids falling in love. You see adults falling in love. But is it so easy to fall in love? No, it is not. The idea of being in love, You love the idea of being in a relationship. You let relations define your happiness but believe it's not true.  The happiest couples you see on the internet are not happy. They are just pretending but you don't have to do that. You can live your life however you want to by loving yourself first not someone else. Love is not as common as it seems. It's rare and it takes time and luck to find that. UNEXPECTED TIMING Ooo... Love comes at the most unexpected time. When you expect the least, it will come knocking at your door making your life chaotic. But that's the beauty of it, that's the thing we want right? Who wants to have things simply without any drama. There is no fun without chaos. UNEXPECTED PERSON Love comes from the unexpected. You get feelings for your ...

Self Love: The love that keeps you going

 Self Love Some say it is selfish, some say it gives confidence but what is self love?  Self love is loving yourself without anyone's approval. To be confident in your own skin, to be satisfied with yourself when you look in the mirror, to confidently make choices which are good for your own being.  Its a power. Self love gives you power to stand for yourself, that confidence you need to achieve anything you want. You cannot focus on something, pursue your dreams without having confidence in yourself. And confidence comes by loving yourself.  How to love yourself? Loving yourself is greater than loving someone else. To accept your flaws, to work on them, to love your body , your skin is very important. 1. Self approval You just need your approval. Start building your confidence in you. Start your day by saying good things about yourself in the mirror (like I am beautiful/handsome, i deserve happiness, i am the best etc.). Some will find this difficult in ...

Coping from anxiety

Anxiety, hesitation, lack of confidence  keeps us away from so many life changing opportunities. Fear of doing something new deprive us from having a better life. We keep getting stuck in what ifs rather on focusing on achieving things. Some fear from failure, some fear from getting vulnerable in front of the world. Everyone have their own problems and perspectives but this doesn't mean that you should be deprived from having a better life.  There are many methods to cope up with these fears. ANXIETY Anxiety involves feelings of worry, negative thoughts, fear and feeling out of control. It affects a person mentally and some physically too. It results in restlessness, overthinking.  So how to cope up with it? Is it possible to defeat anxiety?  Yes, it takes time, pateince to defeat anxiety but everyone can do this. 1. Breathing MANTRA When feeling anxious, indulge yourself in breathing exercises.  What to do? a) sit in a comfortable place b) close your eyes c) in...