Unveiled Soul

 An open letter to the ones who can't express their love ❤️  Dear crazy person, You make it hard to understand your feelings. Sometimes it feels like you can give all of your love to me and sometimes it feels you will drive me crazy with you. I know you can't express your love but your presence in every difficulty I face, kind of make it up to me. Your craziness keeps me going. Your taunting motivational words are key to a happy life. It difficult for you to say good things directly to me but my experience and patience with you have taught me enough to understand your feelings without you even saying it. Is it so difficult to express yourself? Is it so difficult to express love? It's not. Your stubbornness makes it difficult. But I'm getting used to it. I can handle you and your crazy stubbornness to not act nice.  You are a person of your actions, not words. You don't know how to exaggerate your feelings but you sure know how to be there for someone and...

Is there any person who has not been through denial? Mostly every person has been in denial. So, what is denial?  It's a way of coping with something bad by not accepting reality. We tend to avoid reality to not deal with the overpowering emotions. We struggle to accept the truth, which can cause stress or anxiety. It can be about anything or anyone. It can be a certain type of loss or shock. Why does it happen? We know somewhere deep down that this is the truth and if I accept I will have to deal with overwhelming emotions for which we are not ready. So, our mind uses denial as a defence mechanism. In this way, we do not have to deal with the problems. We try to live a normal life.  How to know when we are in denial? 1.  We refuse to talk about a specific topic. 2. We tend to try to avoid situations that can make you think about it. 3. We find excuses for our behaviour. 4. We tend to lash out at the person who is trying to make us talk about it. 5. We indulge...

Overthinking has become such a common word. Sometimes it seems natural that it's okay to overthink. But trust me it's not. What is overthinking? When you are obsessed to think about the things that didn't have happened but have chances of happening. Sometimes you think way more about past things. It can be anything. It's sabotaging our happiness by thinking about the worst things that could happen.   Overthinking- Is it good or bad? It is mostly bad only. Because your brain gets tired of thinking about something again and again. Sometimes it gives anxiety, stress and to some maybe panic attacks. You think about the possibility of something bad happening when you are happy, that's not good right? Sometimes you also overthink what if something good happens (only gives you expectations). But you feel that whatever bad things you think about, seem to be true ( yeah I know all your worst fears happen to be true). So, maybe it's like preparing ...

  They say you deserve better . But what if we don't want the better one. You came into life unexpectedly and you left unexpectedly too. If we deserve better then why does it happens every time. You get feelings for someone after so much time, you try to overcome your past and your fear. What do we get in return? Fake feelings, fake attachment. You think you are the priority of them but they prove you wrong here too. They give you thousands of reason for not staying. But deep down we all know a person only needs one reason to stay. So, it proves they don't want to stay, they don't want to be with you. They say you deserve better.. but if they want to make a relationship work can't they make themselves better for us? Is it so easy to leave without even trying? Without any efforts? They say if it is meant to be it will happen but they have the option to make it happen but they don't try enough. Are we not even worth trying? Are we n...

Everyone has that one person in their life who either makes your life or destroys it. I had both of them and I know you also have them at one point in life.  THE DESTROYER Sometimes we give someone so much control over us that they sabotage our life. But why give someone that power to do so? No one has the right to make your life a disaster. So difficult that you start doubting yourself, you start overthinking, anxiety, stress. Their fake promises make your life so hard. You believe them, you let your guard down and what for so they can stab you in the back? Leave you all alone again? Break your trust? You don't deserve this. No one does. Heartbreaks can come from anyone your love, your friend, anyone (mine were both◕‿◕) You are so much more than this. Believe me, you are much worthy. THE SUPPORTER And there is one person, who doesn't leave your side when you are going through the worst. They try to make things better for you. They try to be ...