At every moment of your life, at every turn of your life, there is someone ready to BETRAY you.
Someone doesn't stand up to your expectations, you feel betrayed. Someone does something that hurts your feelings, you feel betrayed. Someone chooses another person over you, you feel betrayed. Many ways can make you feel that you are being betrayed. You also betray people if you are not left with any option.
Sometimes it's not that you are being betrayed intentionally. People have their reasons. Some do them purposely to make you hurt, some do it without knowing you are going to get hurt and some do not have any option left.
So why put yourself in a position where there are chances of you getting hurt. Why keep your expectations so high, that when the other person doesn't meet them you get hurt. Why give someone that liberty, freedom in your life to come and make a choice. It's not like don't trust anybody, don't confide in someone. Do it but don't make yourself that vulnerable.
Betrayals come from unexpected, sometimes from unknown too. These are part of your life. You can't do anything. The only thing you can do is make yourself so strong that when someone betrays you don't get shattered.
ALL YOU HAVE IS YOU ONLY. SO TRUST YOURSELF AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.
Very well said!
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ReplyDelete🙌🏻 well said
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