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Is making the first move worth it?

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First move!!
The first move is always full of doubts and what-ifs. What if they ignore me, what if they find me intimidating, what if my first impression comes out wrong. Our minds just revolve around these thoughts. 

So, is the first move that scary? No, it's not. It's just a mind game, all the doubts are in our head only. We think that making the first move has all the negative what-ifs but there is a positive side also. What if they also wanted us to make the first move, what if they also liked us and so on.

Does gender matter?
Most people think that only the male gender can make the first move. But it's not true, whoever wants to make the first move can make it. You just need to be willing. Take your chance, what do you get to lose?

What can you do?
The only thing you can do is make effort. If it is meant to be it will happen. So why not make the first move, at least you tried, right!? Maybe in the end all the efforts are worth it. 

A blessing in disguise!!!
The first move can be a blessing in disguise. Text them first, approach them first, go show efforts. 

Not showing efforts is not cool!
Nowadays, people think that if I will not make any move or show interest, it will make them fall hard. But no, it will only make them lose interest more. So be your true self.
In the end, it's all WORTH IT.

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