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You deserve better, they say

 
They say you deserve better. But what if we don't want the better one. You came into life unexpectedly and you left unexpectedly too. If we deserve better then why does it happens every time.

You get feelings for someone after so much time, you try to overcome your past and your fear. What do we get in return? Fake feelings, fake attachment. You think you are the priority of them but they prove you wrong here too. They give you thousands of reason for not staying. But deep down we all know a person only needs one reason to stay. So, it proves they don't want to stay, they don't want to be with you.

They say you deserve better.. but if they want to make a relationship work can't they make themselves better for us? Is it so easy to leave without even trying? Without any efforts?

They say if it is meant to be it will happen but they have the option to make it happen but they don't try enough. Are we not even worth trying? Are we not enough? It can get hard sometimes but if they want to we can make it. Ughh but no they don't want to try. 

They make you feel bad about yourself and about trusting them. They try to push the guilt on you by saying 'I didn't told you to that'. They become toxic for you. And that's not fair.

They say you deserve better. Hell yeah, you deserve better. You don't need someone to make you have doubts about yourself. You are enough. The person who makes you question everything doesn't deserve you (they are right in one thing). 

Sometimes we can be wrong, sometimes they can be wrong.
But it doesn't mean that we get abandon by them. We also try to keep up with their mistakes. We are also trying. So don't we deserve someone who can try for us? Who can understand us? Who can understand why we do things we do? Everyone deserves that.

So keep your chin up. You deserve the world ( as my friends say) and I'm telling you too. 

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